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• Make sure your wedding reflects each of you individually and as a couple.

• Keep the details simple. You'll save so much frustration by not being extravagant where you don't need to be.

• Never do something just because your mother-in-law to-be wants it.

• In lieu of favors, make a donation to a charity, appropriate to you as a couple.

• If you see something you love, go with it.

• Stop and remember to enjoy the moments before the big day.

• Remember that it's your special day and that your guests will be happy no matter what you choose, as long as it's from the heart.

• Take in every second of your special day. It all happens so fast.

• Do not be afraid to ask for help.

• Don't be persuaded by other people's taste if it's not in line with your own. Follow your heart.

• Get the big things accomplished and book as early as possible so you can concentrate on the details.

• Instead of ordering a wedding cake, consider a birthday cake decorated with fresh flowers. There's a major price difference, but it's the same beautiful cake.

• Above all, remember that this is a celebration! Keep perspective, relax and have fun.

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