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Q. I can't decide between my sister and my best friend for the maid-of-honor slot. If they were co-maids of honor, how would I divvy up the responsibilities?
A. Having them share the role is a lovely and thoroughly acceptable idea. Make it clear to each that her involvement means a lot to you, and assure them that you'll keep them both busy.
Maid-of-honor functions traditionally include planning assistance (choosing bridesmaids dresses, addressing invitations or writing place cards), ceremonial duties (holding the groom's ring or taking the bridal bouquet), and helping to organize or shepherd guests at the reception for activities (such as the cake cutting or bouquet toss).
Practicality can be your guide in apportioning some of these tasks. If your sister lives 300 miles away, she could serve as your sounding board, while your friend who lives locally might be more available to shop with you for dresses.
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