Says Oren, "Seek out locations that aren't necessarily designed for weddings." Instead of a church or park, for example, investigate using a local art gallery, museum or historic public building. While on a prewedding visit to Oaxaca, she and Cutler fell in love with the idea of marrying in the city's quaint Museum of Oaxacan Painters. After finding out that it had rarely been used for such a purpose, the couple wrote a letter to the local government and were granted their wish to wed there.